What is it like to live in that house?

I'm reading a book called "Fat Girl." It's really quite depressing, and it makes me feel glad that I didn't have a bad childhood like Judith Moore did. It's not about her losing weight or anything; it's like a memior, all about her obsession with food, her love of food, and the ramifications of that love. All of that. Next I'm going to read "Wasted." It's about a girl with anorexia, to say the very least. I have a strange obsession with bulimia and anorexia, especially the people afflicted by it. I like reading their blogs, and watching movies about them, and I would really like to talk to one about their anorexia. I don't even want to try to heal them; I just want to talk to them about it. I always want to talk to people about their weird things. One of my close friends has an extremely messy house, and I've actually asked her, "What is it like to live in that house?"